Mental performance coaching is gaining momentum across sports, and for good reason. While physical training and skill development are essential, today’s top athletes are discovering that mindset is the real game-changer. In this post, we highlight the voices of four athletes—Anson Zaiser (baseball/hockey), Remi Werden (softball), Malachi Lowe (basketball), and Ryland Holt (pro basketball)—who have experienced firsthand how mental performance coaching can transform not just their game, but their lives.

Why Mental Performance Coaching Matters

Athletes spend countless hours practicing their sport and building their bodies in the weight room. But how much time do they spend intentionally training their minds? Mental performance coaching bridges the gap between physical ability and game execution, helping athletes develop the crucial third skill set: mental toughness.

As Coach Matt Thomann explains, “If you want to be really successful at a sport and get the most out of it, there are three skill sets you need: game skills, physical skills, and mental skills. Of the three, mental skills are the most transferable beyond sports.”

Real Growth, Real Voices

Embracing a Positive Experience

Anson Zaiser came to coaching looking for a way to clear his head and control his thoughts:

“I was just looking for a place to start… to not get in my head as much, you know, and like just strive as a person too. Like being able to control certain situations and whatnot.”

Through exercises like deep breathing and focusing on what he can control, Anson found a way to manage stress and perform with more confidence.

Building Confidence and Perspective

Remi Werden, a high school softball catcher, shared how mental performance coaching helped her grow both on and off the field. She learned to handle pressure, bounce back from mistakes, and maintain a positive outlook, all of which contributed to her increased confidence.

Channeling Focus and Handling Adversity

Malachi Lowe, a high school point guard, described how coaching helped him stay composed during tough moments:

“On the court, I’m able to channel things a lot better… handle situations better. For example, missing shots and not hanging my head or a ref… not getting mad about that, not getting upset about not playing as much or someone yelling in the stands. I’m able to channel that a lot better.”

He also noted that stepping out of his comfort zone and talking about his experiences made a big difference for his mental health and performance.

Growth for All Levels

Ryland Holt, a professional basketball player, emphasized that mental performance coaching isn’t just for struggling athletes. Even those performing at a high level can benefit from sharpening their mental skills to gain that extra edge.

Why Parents Shouldn’t Hesitate

A key takeaway from these athletes is that parents shouldn’t be afraid to invest in mental performance coaching for their children. Working on mental skills isn’t just for athletes facing challenges—it’s for anyone who wants to grow. As Coach Thomann notes, “Anytime we work on something, we improve at it, and this is true for both confidence and mental health.”

What Mental Performance Coaching Looks Like

  • Breathing and Mindfulness: Techniques to calm nerves and stay present
  • Focusing on Controllables: Learning to direct energy toward what you can control
  • Positive Self-Talk: Building a resilient inner voice
  • Gratitude and Perspective: Encouraging a growth mindset and appreciation for the journey

The Lasting Impact

Mental performance coaching helps athletes become better players, better teammates, and ultimately, better people. The skills they learn—focus, resilience, confidence, and self-awareness—transfer to every area of life, from school to relationships to future careers.

If you’re a parent, coach, or athlete, consider making mental skills training a priority. The benefits go far beyond the scoreboard.

Interested in learning more about Mental Mettle Coaching?
Contact: coachthomann@gmail.com
Visit: www.mentalmettlelifecoaching.com

Are you ready to forge your mettle?

More From Mental Mettle

Episode 149: Never Done Learning with HOF Coach Pat Ryan
Coach Pat Ryan has spent a lifetime building football the right way: with consistency, toughness, relationships, and a commitment to never stop learning. In this episode of The Mental Mettle Podcast, Coach Matt Thomann sits down with the longtime Metamora High School head coach and current Director of High School Relations for Illinois Football to talk about what really sustains success in coaching.
Episode 148: Reborn in the Ring: Gabi Jacobs on Walking Away, Coming Back, and Trusting the Process
In Episode 148 of The Mental Mettle Podcast, three-time All-American and SEC champion discus thrower Gabi Jacobs shares raw details on quitting without regret, rebuilding joy, and why stepping away can clarify your path. Perfect for athletes, parents, or coaches facing pressure.​
Toxic Motivators: How Fear, Lust, Anger, and Pride Quietly Shape Performance
In Episode 147 of the Mental Metal Podcast, Coach Matt Toman and Dr. Dave Jones unpack a powerful idea that applies to athletes, coaches, parents, and leaders alike: the biggest performance problems are often not physical, but motivational.
Episode 147: Fear vs. Faith with Dr. Dave Jones: Beating Toxic Motivators with True Mental Toughness
Episode 147 of The Mental Mettle Podcast features former pro hockey player, Air Force veteran, and sport and performance psychologist Dr. Dave Jones for a powerful conversation about fear, faith, and true mental toughness. What began as a brutal slap shot to the face eventually rerouted Dave’s life toward the Air Force, pro hockey in Germany, faith, and the work he now does helping high performers build a healthier mindset.
Episode 146: Pedaling with a Purpose with USA Track Cyclist McKenna McKee
In Episode 146 of The Mental Mettle Podcast, “Pedaling with a Purpose,” Coach Matt Thomann sits down with Team USA track cyclist McKenna McKee—16‑time National Champion, LA 2028 hopeful, nursing student, and a powerful example of what it looks like to turn a “disadvantage” into an advantage.
The Resilient Parents Playbook: A Mental Toughness Guide for Sports Parents
The Resilient Parents Playbook is a free, practical mental training resource created specifically for parents of athletes. It shows you how to become a positive mental performance coach at home, even if you’ve never taken a psychology class or played at a high level yourself.